Showing posts with label Encouragement/Inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Encouragement/Inspiration. Show all posts

Friday, October 20, 2017

To Every Thing There is a Season...


"To every thing there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under the heaven..."
~ Ecclesiastes 3:1

Dear reader, the time has come for me to step away for awhile. I don't know the length of my departure but I feel it is necessary at this time in my life. In order to practice what I preach (for I shrink at the thought of being a hyprocite!), I am going to take a rest from this keyboard. 

"a time to speak..." (Ecclesiastes 3:7)

Thank you for all the kind and encouraging words that you have shared with me over the recent years. I have really enjoyed the online fellowship and it was a balm for me during the past 5 years when a large change had come into my life. Another season is now brewing and my home needs 100% of my attention... As the late Jim Elliot had summoned up brilliantly, “Wherever you are, be all there!"

So for the present, it is "a time to keep silence"... (Ecclesiastes 3:7)


Until next time! -- Happy Homemaking!

With Love, JES


Wednesday, August 23, 2017

The Blessings of Old Fashioned Work ~ Round Up


"For there is a great satisfaction in work well done,
the thrill of success in a task accomplished."
~ Laura Ingalls Wilder, On Wisdom & Virtues

Enclosed is a round up of articles on our series of  "The Blessings of Old Fashioned Work". I know that I am in constant need of reminders and inspiration and I hope some of these essays from our archives will be an encouragement to you! 


The Blessings of Old Fashioned Work ~ Part 1: The Sweet Satisfaction (Mental Well-Being)


The Blessings of Old Fashioned Work ~ Part 2:  The Sweat Satisfaction (Physical Well-Being)


The Blessings of Old Fashioned Work ~ Part 3: The Sweetness of $aving (Financial Well-Being)


The Blessings of Old Fashioned Work ~ Part 4: The Spiritual Strengthening (Spiritual Well-Being)


The Blessings of Old Fashioned Work ~ Part 5: Balancing the Blessings (Overall Well-Being)


"We have been, for so long, thinking of labor as a curse upon man that, because of our persistently thinking of it as such, it has very nearly become so.

There always has been a great deal of misplaced pity for Adam because of his sentence to hard labor for life when really that was all that saved him after he was deported from paradise, and is the only thing that has kept his descendants as safe and sane even as they are.

There is nothing wrong with God's plan that man should earn his bread by the seat of his brow. The wrong is in our own position only. In trying to shirk while we "let George do it," we bring upon ourselves our own punishment; for in the attitude we take toward our work, we make of it a burden instead of the blessing it might be.

Work is like other good things in that it should not be indulged in to excess, but a reasonable amount that is of value to one's self and to the world , as is any honest, well-directed labor, need never descend into drudgery.

It is a tonic and an inspiration and a reward unto itself. For the sweetness of life lies in usefulness like honey deep in the heart of a clover bloom."
~ Laura Ingalls Wilder, On Wisdom & Virtues

“Yes,” she said, hopefully, “I know you will succeed, for the best thing a man can have, is work with a purpose in it, and the will to do it heartily.”
~ Louisa May Alcott, An Old-Fashioned Girl


“The LORD will open to you his good treasury,
the heavens, to give the rain to your land in its season
and to bless all the work of your hands.”
~Deuteronomy 28:12
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Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Titus-2 Homemaking Encouragement Inspired by Louisa M. Alcott


"Mother went to see Uncle S. J. May, and I was house-keeper. Gave my mind to it so energetically that I dreamed dip-toast, talked apple-sauce, thought pies, and wept drop-cakes..."
~ Louisa May Alcott, Her Life, Letters, and Journals

Growing up in a home teaming with intellectual writers, philosophers, naturalists and poets, you may think that homemaking was the last thing on the mind of Louisa May Alcott. But "au contraire", her writing shows it was an important part of her life. Today we highlight five Titus-2 encouragements which are inspired by the nourishing novels of Ms. Alcott that will help you to love your home!


1. Be Serious About Homemaking

"Housekeeping ain't no joke..."
~ Louisa May Alcott, Little Women

I have heard some say, "I am just a housewife" but that is not so if we put our whole heart into it! If we are serious about homemaking, it becomes a noble career. Be interested in all the little details around you. One way to become a serious homemaker is to read books on the subject! My favorite "professional" homemaking book is Home Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House (Interestingly enough, it is written by a woman lawyer who had such a love for the nuts and bolts of homemaking that she wrote a thorough book on the subject! She too thought that "housekeeping ain't no joke!").

There is nothing like knowledge to show you are serious about your "work". Learn the proper order of things, the right way to clean, how to wisely maintain what you have and so forth. Make out old fashioned ledgers and record your household budget. Prepare meal plans, seasonal homemaking lists and chore charts. Organize your household and do monthly maintenances if you have the time. Ask other women how they do things and see if you can fine-tune your household, your finances, your systems. Talk to your mother, grandmother or other older women in your life about what they have learned along the way and glean their wisdom. You will be taken seriously once you seriously love what you do and investing your time and energy is the best way to show your devotion. 

"That they (the aged women) may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home..."
~ Titus 2:4-5


2. Housekeeping is an Accomplishment

“Well, now there is a very excellent, necessary, and womanly accomplishment that my girl should not be without, for it is a help to rich and poor, and the comfort of families depends upon it. This fine talent is neglected nowadays and considered old-fashioned, which is a sad mistake and one that I don't mean to make in bringing up my girl. It should be part of every girl's eductation, and I know of a most accomplished lady who will teach you in the best and pleasantest manner."

"Oh, what is it?" cried Rose eagerly, charmed to be met in this helpful and cordial way.

"Housekeeping!" answered Dr. Alec.

“Is that an accomplishment?” asked Rose, while her face fell, for she had indulged in all sorts of vague, delightful dreams.

“Yes; it is one of the most beautiful as well as useful of all the arts a woman can learn. Not so romantic, perhaps, as singing, painting, writing, or teaching, even; but one that makes many happy and comfortable, and home the sweetest place in the world. Yes, you may open your big eyes; but it is a fact that I had rather see you a good housekeeper than the greatest belle in the city. It need not interfere with any talent you may possess, but it is a necessary part of your training.”

“Who is the lady?” asked Rose, rather impressed by her uncle’s earnest speech.

“Aunt Plenty.”

“Is she accomplished?” began Rose in a wondering tone, for this great-aunt of hers had seemed the least cultivated of them all.

“In the good old-fashioned way she is very accomplished, and has made this house a happy home to us all, ever since we can remember. She is not elegant, but genuinely good, and so beloved and respected that there will be universal mourning for her when her place is empty. No one can fill it, for the solid, homely virtues of the dear soul have gone out of fashion, as I say, and nothing new can be half so satisfactory, to me at least.”

Let her teach you how to be what she has been a skillful, frugal, cheerful housewife; the maker and the keeper of a happy home, and by and by you will see what a valuable lesson it is.”
~ Louisa May Alcott, Eight Cousins

I have met various women (many of whom were college graduates) that were taught many interesting things in their early education. Sadly, homemaking was not one of them and the poor souls struggle desperately to keep their household in order. Ironically, many of these same women are no longer in the professional work force and the one career they didn't train for was where they ended up -- in the home! The same women that can nurse patients in the sick ward, run the finances of a large corporation and teach multiple children in the classroom, may not know how to run an efficient home. What this shows is that housekeeping is certainly an accomplishment! Don't let anyone tell you different.

"She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates."
~ Proverbs 31:27-31


3. Housework is Healing

“Things worry me sometimes, but I just catch up a broom and sweep, or wash hard, or walk, or go at something with all my might, and I usually find that by the time I get through the worry is gone, or I’ve got courage enough to bear it without grumbling,” answered Polly, cutting the brown loaf energetically.

“I can’t do those things, you know; there’s no need of it, and I don’t think they’d cure my worrying,” said Fanny, languidly feeding Ashputtel, who sat decorously beside her, at the table, winking at the cream pot.

“A little poverty would do you good, Fan; just enough necessity to keep you busy till you find how good work is; and when you once learn that, you won’t complain of ennui any more,” returned Polly, who had taken kindly the hard lesson which twenty years of cheerful poverty had taught her."

~ Louisa May Alcott, An Old-Fashioned Girl

“Go on with your work as usual, for work is a blessed solace.” 
~ Louisa May Alcott, Little Women

Ever since the fall, mankind has been given the responsibility of work to the sweat of our brow. This can be viewed as a negative experience or a positive one if you choose it to be. When we are faced with excess anxiety and stress, we can be like loaded cannons! What better place to divert that negative energy than into some old fashioned labor. By the time the floors have been scrubbed, the dishes have been washed and the house is sparkling and tidy, you can reflect at that moment that you do feel just a bit better! The nerves have been spent on something positive. A smile is now most likely to be given to those in the household instead of bottled up anger or wrath. Keeping busy can help us to rule our emotions! Housework can be healing.

"The hand of the diligent shall bear rule: but the slothful shall be under tribute."
~ Proverbs 12:24


4.  Housework is "Good"

"She smiled, said nothing, and with Hannah's help did their neglected work, keeping home pleasant and the domestic machinery running smoothly. It was astonishing what a peculiar and uncomfortable state of things was produced by the `resting and reveling' process. The days kept getting longer and longer, the weather was unusually variable and so were tempers, and unsettled feeling possessed everyone, and Satan found plenty of mischief for the idle hands to do."
~ Louisa May Alcott, Little Women

As the old adage goes, "idle time is the devil's workshop". With the modern day lifestyle, we are all set up for this ungodly craft. Though we stay at home, we can still keep busy in the laziest of ways. Social networking can be the biggest web to catch its prey. Instead of "keeping the home", we can spend our time tearing it down by focusing on the latest "news", learning gossip on you-know-who's FB page and/or browsing blogs of carefree lifestyles and wishing ours wasn't so burdened. Scripture warns us of slothful behavior. It all leads down a dark and dreary path. Old fashioned housework in the home cultivates a clean temple. When spending the time to love and raise our children, make healthy and nourishing meals, keep the house clean for when hubby enters at the end of a long day or when we decorate our little cottages with delight, we will be less likely to cause that spiritual mischief! Yes dear ladies, housework is a good thing.

"And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not. I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully."
~ 1 Timothy 5:13-14


5. Homemaking Can Make You Happy

"Very busy and very happy were Rose’s days now, for in the morning she went about the house with Aunt Plenty attending to linen-closets and store-rooms, pickling and preserving, exploring garret and cellar to see that all was right, and learning, in the good old-fashioned manner, to look well after the ways of the household. In the afternoon, after her walk or drive, she sat with Aunt Peace plying her needle, while Aunt Plenty, whose eyes were failing, knitted and chatted briskly, telling many a pleasant story of old times, till the three were moved to laugh and cry together, for the busy needles were embroidering all sorts of bright patterns on the lives of the workers, though they seemed to be only stitching cotton and darning hose. It was a pretty sight to see the rosy-faced little maid sitting between the two old ladies, listening dutifully to their instructions, and cheering the lessons with her lively chatter and blithe laugh."
~ Louisa May Alcott, Eight Cousins

There is something so nourishing and noble in the making of a home! All of our senses are occupied in the matter when we truly love to follow the inspired urging to "keep the home". Here our creativity flourishes and our talents are magnified. There is such a variety in our life! The Almighty was generous to make seasons so each part of our lifestyle has a monthly rhythm. In the spring, we are preparing the earth and planting, airing out the linens, cleaning up the cobwebs. In the summer, we are harvesting, preserving and enjoying the warm days with BBQs and ice cream! In the autumn, we have a slower pace but a beautiful canvas to enjoy of falling leaves and plenty of apple and pumpkin treats. In the winter, we hibernate in our cozy homes like little cubs. We light the fireplace, bring out hot mugs of chocolate and read nourishing novels together. In between it all, we can be our best. If you love numbers, you are coordinating your finances, if you love art, you are embellishing your home, if you love nesting, you are building up your pantry and preparing all sorts of projects to make your home run smoothly. There is delight for all parts of us in the home and it can make you very happy if you realize you have much to offer it!

"Thus saith the Lord, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls."
~ Jeremiah 6:16


Thank you for joining us in the homemaking world of Louisa May Alcott! If you enjoyed this article, you may also be interested in Titus 2 Homemaking Lessons Inspired by Jane Austen and Frugal Homemaking Lessons from The Great Depression Inspired by Janette Oke. We will be sharing more in this inspirational literary series shortly. In the meantime, I leave you with a few more encouraging words by Ms. Alcott...


"The homeliest tasks get beautiful if loving hands do them."
~ Louisa May Alcott

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Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Remembering Aunt Bee ~ A Guest Post


Special Note: This is a guest post by my dear daughter...

I adore the Andy Griffith Show! Uproarious Deputy Barney “Barn” Fife is the perfect sidekick to friendly “sheriff without a gun” Andy Taylor. His son Opie spices up the show, along with other heartwarming characters such as Floyd Lawson (Mayberry’s inimitable barber), Thelma Lou (Barney’s girl) and many others. But the heart of Mayberry has got to be Aunt Bee, with her warm, bustling everyday baking and housekeeping.


When Andy comes home from a long day at the sheriff’s office (worn out from Barney’s antics), Aunt Bee is waiting to tell him that there is leftover homemade apple pie in the kitchen.


Later, when the family is gathered on the porch – with great nephew Opie building block houses on the floor, Andy playing the guitar, and Aunt Bee knitting, she exclaims – as the clock strikes nine – “bedtime, Opie. I’ll be up in a minute.” Then of course, she hears him say his prayers and tucks him in.


Aunt Bee is an artistically talented woman as well – her side hobbies include crocheting doilies, knitting, painting with watercolors, and singing. She is also a member of the Mayberry Garden Club. 



First thing in the morning, Barney will make his “usual quiet arrival” in the squad car. Of course, Aunt Bee always insists he sit down and have a cup of coffee while she swaps recipes for cherry upside down cake with best friend Clara over the telephone line.


When a traveling handyman fixes the roof, she has cold lemonade, a beautiful lunch, and a guest room all prepared. Aunt Bee’s hospitality extends to many! When various cousins or others pass a few days at the Taylor’s, she is always scrupulous about clean sheets and good dinners, insisting that everyone help make their guests feel welcome.



Any neighbor down on their luck is sure to meet with a warm invitation to come on over if you need a place to stay. 


Bachelor Barney looks forward to Sunday dinners at the Taylor’s – in fact, everybody in Mayberry hopes to be invited, as they know Aunt Bee will have fixed a feast of her famous fried chicken and biscuits, along with homemade pies for dessert. 


Then, too, there are the not so welcome visitors – the infamous Darlings, an army of silent, hungry mountain men. But Aunt Bee just presses her lips together and cheerfully resigns herself to working in the kitchen, cooking enough for all.



She delivers a delicious lunch over to the courthouse for Andy and Barney every single day – but she generally has to hurry back home as she’ll have cakes for the church social in the oven. Somebody sick in Mayberry? Aunt Bee never forgets to send hot soup over. 


Still, no one woman can be good at everything.

Aunt Bee loves to can pickles and jams to keep on hand in the cupboard… But they are usually inedible. Nobody has the heart to tell her so, but Barney privately refers to her pickles as “kerosene cucumbers.”  Her thrifty ways can also get her into trouble – like the time she bought an entire cow for the freezer. Unhappily there was a reason why it was so cheap… 


Aunt Bee’s attempt at playing baseball with Opie was equally unsuccessful, but you have to give it to her – she tried. For all that, Opie’s own words are “she’s the best cook in Mayberry.” And that’s all that really matters to a growing boy... 


Not only does Aunt Bee cook – she keeps the house spic and span, and always keeps the men folk’s shirts clean and mended. Yes, sir, she keeps the world going round for her two nephews. In fact, the few times she’s had to go away for a few days, they’ve had a rough time getting on without her but Aunt Bee enjoys it all heartily, and loves to be needed by her family.


Modern women can say what they like, but the fact is everybody loves the “Aunt Bees” of the world. They are always in demand, always needed, always cherished, and always remembered fondly when they pass on. That's a legacy worth leaving.



I’m proud to say that I want to be just like Aunt Bee when I grow up. Heaven forbid such lovable, necessary ladies become a thing of the past, like calling cards and kid gloves! Let’s create a new generation of aspiring Aunt Bees – one apple pie at a time...



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Tuesday, May 2, 2017

Frugal Homemaking Lessons from the Great Depression Inspired by Janette Oke ~ Part 2


"Without frugality none can be rich,
and with it very few would be poor."
~ Samuel Johnson

Thank you for joining us for our second installment of Frugal Homemaking Lessons from The Great Depression Inspired by Janette Oke.  You will find part one HERE which features #1-6. As I had previously mentioned, my daughter and I just finished reading the Seasons of the Heart series together by Janette Oke. The final book in the series, Spring's Gentle Promise landed the newly married couple right in the beginning of the Great Depression. As a result, the novel had many gems on how women made do during the lean times. The author herself grew up as a child during the Depression Era. Perhaps these are the frugal homemaking lessons she learned from her mother. I would like to pass them down to you... inspired by the excerpts written by Janette Oke from her gentle story. 


#7. Host Potlucks

"No fuss was made, but each family member brought simple food items with them. Lou had a big pot of rabbit stew and some pickled beets. Lilli brought deviled eggs and a crock of kraut. With the roast chicken prepared in our kitchen, we had ourselves quite a feast. There was even a cake for the birthday boy -- and some weak tea for the adults."
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Potlucks are the perfect way to show hospitality, practice fellowship, have fun and share food when the budget is tight. Every person invited is asked to bring a dish and the collected food is a feast! During the Great Depression, the church often held these socials where the one-dish casserole was star of the show. People are glad to do this! You provide the clean house and date, they will be more than happy to bring a small share of the meal or dessert. You will also be amazed how each little dish is stretched and blessed into an abundant state on your table!

"There is a lad here, which hath five barley loaves, and two small fishes: but what are they among so many? And Jesus said, Make the men sit down. Now there was much grass in the place. So the men sat down, in number about five thousand. And Jesus took the loaves; and when he had given thanks, he distributed to the disciples, and the disciples to them that were set down; and likewise of the fishes as much as they would. When they were filled, he said unto his disciples, Gather up the fragments that remain, that nothing be lost. Therefore they gathered them together, and filled twelve baskets with the fragments of the five barley loaves, which remained over and above unto them that had eaten."
~ John 6:9-13


#7. Mend and Make Do

"And then I looked across the table to where {she} sat mending work socks. They had more darning than original wool...  She patched my overalls and sewed buttons back on my coat, but there didn't seem to be much she could do about my worn-out mittens... But the following morning when I joined the family at the breakfast table there was a new pair of mittens. She must have stayed up again most of the night in order to knit them. They were the same color as her chore sweater, which I noticed was no longer hanging on the peg by the door where she always kept it. I tried to swallow away the lump that grew large in my throat..."
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

"Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without" needs a second mentioning in this series. It encourages us to be creative with our resources and with a sewing needle and thread, miracles were made! For starters, you would simply maintain what you had by letting out seams and tucks to make dresses larger and/or longer for your growing girls, patch up pants, mend socks and even shoes! Frayed bath towels would be cut down to make smaller hand-towels and washcloths. Likewise, the thicker (but worn out) dishtowels can be fashioned into serviceable dishcloths. Buttons and zippers can be removed from clothing that is completely worn down and reused while the fabric itself can become rags. Better portions of fabric can be used to cover pathetic looking potholders and embellish small sewing projects. The salvaged pieces can also be saved to make old fashioned patchwork quilts and rag rugs.


Sew the items you need from available and free fabrics (remember the famous flour-sack fabrics recycled into children's clothing, tea towels, bonnets, aprons, etc.). Look in your own linen closet for random pieces that have no real use! You can also find flat sheets and such at yard sales and thrift shops very inexpensively that can be repurposed into napkins, curtains, clothing (remember the Sound of Music?), duvets, runners and so forth. Flannel sheets can be repurposed into re-usable paper towels, soft handkerchiefs, baby blankets, bibs and burp cloths. Be creative with your resources and you will find the challenge to be very satisfying! 

"To every thing there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under the heaven...
A time to rend, and a time to sew..."
~ Ecclesiastes 3:1 and 3:7


#8. Reduce

"We did make the payment. It was always a miracle to me. But we had to drain ourselves down to practically nothing to do it. We sold off almost all my good stock...  she also sold the silver tea service..." 
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

It is during the lean times that we must access the situation. What do we own that we really don't need? Perhaps it is that second car? An RV or boat? Or just too much "stuff" in general? Ebay, yard sales and Craig's list are ways to earn a few extra dollars to make ends meet. Most of the time, we can find the bondage from all these extra things very freeing. In the case of a second car, you are also reducing a car insurance bill, an extra registration fee, future fuel expenses and garage space. You don't realize how owning one item can cost you so much!

"A time to get, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to cast away..."
~ Ecclesiastes 3:6


#9. Search for Side Work

"Then I thought about the piece of treed crick bottom on the Turley land, and I decided there might be a bit of money in cord wood. (She) clutched at the idea right away, her eyes shining..."
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Finding work outside of your regular work to make ends meet was also done. Cutting lumber, preparing cord wood, selling off eggs and cream from the farm, hiring out washing services, cleaning services, selling produce, homemade casseroles, etc., are all ways one made a few extra dollars during lean times. In this modern era, you can also do some bookkeeping and/or quarterly tax reports for smaller businesses from the privacy of your own home. There are also many internet based income opportunities! And once again, there is selling on Ebay (each year I would sell my old homeschool curriculum and use that money to purchase the new year's curriculum), Etsy (if you are crafty) and Craig's List (I wouldn't personally have anyone in my home without my husband present though).

"For yourselves know how ye ought to follow us: for we behaved not ourselves disorderly among you; Neither did we eat any man's bread for nought; but wrought with labour and travail night and day, that we might not be chargeable to any of you..."
~ 2 Thessalonians 3:7-8


#10. Let the Animals Forage 

"And with no feed to speak of, the few remaining farm animals mostly had to forage for themselves anyway. Even her chickens had been turned loose to fend for themselves." 
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Those on the farm had not only their families to think of but their animals. If there was an economy, they could be sold off. However, that might not be feasible. Old fashioned foraging was necessary during these rough times. Excess chickens, sheep or goats can also be processed to provide meals for the family table and reduce food consumption on a farm. Dogs can be given food scraps from the kitchen (there wasn't always those bags of Purina...). Lawn clippings can be given to livestock and chickens as a supplement. I have also heard of feeding animals fish from local ponds during the Depression Era. 

"...yet the dogs eat of the crumbs which fall from their masters' table..."
~ Matthew 15:27b


#11. Take in Boarders or Move in with Family

"(She) tore the envelope open quickly... "It's from the school-board chairman, " she told me. "I wrote inquiring about boarding the teacher."'
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Boarding houses were quite popular during the Great Depression. It provided a way for many people to keep their homes and for many other people to affordably live in one. In this day and age, boarding strangers could prove unsafe. Consider a relative who would be blessed by living with a family or convert a garage into a separate living quarters that you could rent out. I grew up living with two uncles (at different times), a grandfather and a cousin. The memories are precious! Multigenerational homes were quite normal until a few decades ago. I remember a few of my aged aunts living with my great grand-parents. In the Old World, this is still done in the poorer villages. There is always a babysitter at hand and many hands make light work --- not to mention a lighter financial load! Plus, you may not realize what a blessing your boarding house can be to someone else! 

"And Paul dwelt two whole years in his own hired house,
and received all that came in unto him..."
~ Acts 28:30-31


#12. Prayer Doesn't Co$t a Penny

"I guess it was my Bible and the time I was able to spend reading it
and praying that got me through that long winter..."
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

"...then I heard her simple, fervent prayer, "Help us, Lord, please help us."'
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

And finally, what has kept many an old-fashioned, God-fearing homemaker sane during challenging times is the precious power of prayer. This doesn't cost a penny but is the most valuable thing we can do. It puts that heavy burden into more Capable Hands. We physically are not able to endure that much stress and sorrow. It will deplete us of our health and strain our joyful presence in the home. These trying circumstances easily create tension, anger and bitterness. Prayer provides not only answers, but peace -- and that is something we all strive for as faithful Titus-2 women in our homes, especially during the hardships as home is our sacred haven, our sanctuary, our refuge.

"Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."
~Philippians 4:6-7

"He shall regard the prayer of the destitute,
And shall not despise their prayer."
~ Psalm 102:17


Thank you for joining us in the final installment of Frugal Homemaking Lessons from The Great Depression Inspired by Janette Oke. If you enjoyed this article, you may also be interested in Titus 2 Homemaking Lessons Inspired by Jane Austen. We will be sharing more in this series shortly. In the meantime, I leave you with these sober words on the subject for the modern-day household as a bit of prevention...

“There is no dignity
quite so impressive,
and no independence
quite so important,
as living within your means.”
 ~ Calvin Coolidge
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Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Frugal Homemaking Lessons from the Great Depression Inspired by Janette Oke ~ Part 1


"Frugality is founded on the principle that all riches have limits."
~ Edmund Burke (1729 - 1797)

My daughter and I just finished reading the Seasons of the Heart series together by Janette Oke. The final book in the series, Spring's Gentle Promise landed the newly married couple right in the beginning of the Great Depression. As a result, the novel included a few gems on how women made do during the lean times. The author herself grew up as a child during the Depression Era. Perhaps these are the frugal homemaking lessons she learned from her mother. I would like to pass them down to you... inspired by the excerpts written by Janette Oke from her gentle story.

Note: This was a really sweet (and often humorous) coming of age novel. It is told from the point of view of a young boy growing up an orphan on the farm with his elderly grandfather, uncle and young aunt. The set of four stories takes him all the way to manhood and with a family of his own. I don't want to ruin the plot for anyone who has not read it so I am going to remove his wife's name from the quotes and replace it with "her" and "she" in order to keep the suspense for a future reader.



#1. Economize

'"Anything I can do?"

I could have said, "Economize. Watch each dollar. Skimp all you can." But I didn't need to say those things. I knew she would do that without me asking."
 ~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise


"Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without" was the famous mantra of the Depression Era. If we scrutinized every dollar and decision with those words in mind, we would benefit greatly. Do I really need this? Most likely you have gone thus far without it and you can continue to if your budget is breaking. The word "skimp" is rarely said in this modern culture of abundance but it is the foundation of frugal living.


Make a list before you go out and buy only what you truly need. For example, if you were to purchase something in the dollar bin because it was such a "great deal" and yet you really did not NEED it, you are not practicing a frugal lifestyle. It only means you have just spent a hard earned dollar. Many dollars make up 20's and many 20's will make up hundreds!



Buy groceries from bargain food outlets, look for scratch/dent specials, discounted day-old bread and marked down dairy about to expire (they are still good past the due date and whatever can not be consumed in time can be made into meals and frozen). Cook recipes with thrifty ingredients that don't require butter, eggs or milk (such as this crazy carrot cake). Accept hand-me-down clothes and shop exclusively at second hand stores, garage sales and estate sales. Cancel subscriptions to magazines, cable and the newspaper if necessary and utilize your local library instead. Invest in reusable products when possible. Consider handkerchiefs instead of tissue paper, fabric towels instead of paper towels, fabric napkins in lieu of throw-aways, cloth diapers versus disposable and cloth bags instead of paying for the store bought ones.



The other aspect of economy would be services. Are you paying for things you can do yourself such as manicures, yard maintenance, gym memberships (running and jogging are free forms of exercise), making your own meals, baking your own bread and so forth? Consider budget cuts in these areas when the times are lean. Here is our guide to Prudent Living the Pretty Way. It does take willpower and work to achieve these things but your household will be significantly blessed by your efforts!

"... he that gathereth by labour shall increase."
~ Proverbs 13:11b


#2. Grow and Preserve Your Own Food

"All summer long she fought to save her garden. With our finances as they were, it was even more important that she have produce to can or store in the nearby root cellar. Day by day she carried water by the pail and dumped it on her plants, coaxing them, imploring them to bring forth fruit."
 ~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

I think this lesson is quite obvious. There is nothing more frugal than growing and preserving your own food. Freezing and dehydrating are great options if canning is not feasible. I would also like to point out that this is the only way we can afford to eat organic which is an added benefit!

"And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it."
~ Genesis 2:15


#3. Save Your Seeds

"She planted her garden too. She had carefully kept every possible seed so she wouldn't need to buy any. She even exchanged some with the neighborhood women..."
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Once you have the gardening and preserving in action, it is time to take it to the next level. Seed saving is not only a thrifty step but a self-sustainable one. If you have an abundance of certain seeds, trading is a wonderful option for building up a collection. Seeds also make nice and frugal gifts (visit here for an idea)! 

"And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat.
 ~ Genesis 1:29


#4. Conserve

"She knew better than to even start drawing water from the well. There simply wasn't enough there. She saved every bit of dishwater and wash water that was used, though, and carefully doled it out to her plants."
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Learning to conserve water and energy will not only save you money, but will also prove a valuable skill during hard times.  If any item is not in use, unplug it! The plug itself will leach a certain amount of energy (called energy vampires). All our electronic equipment is hooked up to a power cord and I unplug it every evening before bed to conveniently reduce consumption. Unscrew excess lightbulbs in ceiling fans during the day that are not necessary and keep all lights and fans off in rooms where no one is present.


Water should not be taken for granted either. During a crisis, it may not even be available. When our well ran dry, we collected the water in the shower that got wasted as we waited for the hot water to run through the pipes (it took that for us to value this resource!). Do you wash your dishes and brush your teeth as the water runs? In the old days, baths were once a week on the evening before church and the same water was used for everyone in the home!  I am not saying we all should do this but how seriously do we conserve? Do you catch rainwater? Every ounce counts as it is a precious commodity. It may be wise to re-evaluate the conservation efforts of water and energy in your home today. 

"Is it too little for you to have eaten up the good pasture, that you must tread down with your feet the residue of your pasture—and to have drunk of the clear waters, that you must foul the residue with your feet?"
~ Ezekiel 34:18


#5. Smaller Servings and Stretch Your Suppers

"It was another of the things we had learned to do without. Coffee -- weak coffee-- was reserved for breakfast, and each of us was allowed only one cup a day... She sliced some bread and spread some of her carefully hoarded strawberry jam over it -- thinly, I might point out. She set this on the table to go with the coffee."
~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Stretching your provisions by adding oatmeal (or legumes) to a pound of hamburger, watering down coffee or tea, limiting your daily "cups", rationing your special foods or simply serving up smaller portions will positively impact the budget during lean times. Making large batches of soup and stews will stretch vegetables and meats and create multiple meals. Serve with filling foods such as simple muffins or biscuits. Purchase a whole chicken (it is more economical) and roast it or pressure cook it. Remove the meat from the bones and use it to prepare many meals such as chicken pot pie, chicken and dumplings, chicken casseroles, chili, chicken n' biscuits, etc. Take the remaining chicken bones and boil them for a rich, nutritious soup and/or rice base which in turn has created more meals. If you butchered the chicken yourself, the feet can be boiled into a nutrient-rich broth and even the feathers were made into bedding during the Great Depression. When living with my great aunt who grew up in that era, I found that she would take the oil that she fried her foods in and once warm, she would filter it back into a clean bottle. This oil would be used again and again in her cooking (for safety, give it a 3-month shelf life). 


Serving your food on a smaller plate will give you the sense of abundance when a reduction is in order. Cutting toast into triangles also helps with the bountiful table image. Serve water with meals, iced/hot teas or herbal tisanes for frugal beverage options (mint is easy to grow and is a very healthy, tasty drink). I would also like to add something about children's servings. I notice that so much is placed on their plates and 3/4 of it gets thrown away (it grieves me so!). There is no shame in starting off with smaller portions. They can always ask for more! But to give them so much and then to dismiss them from the remains is a grave amount of waste. And finally, don't forget to save your food scraps! Vegetable scraps can be boiled down into a tasty stock which can be drunk as a healthy, hot, beverage in the winter or used as a base for rice, soups and stews. The scraps can also be fed to chickens or composted. Fruit scraps are especially fun to work with and can be made into many useful household products! Remember, "waste not, want not."

"Gather up the fragments that remain, that nothing be lost."
~ John 6:12b


#6. Seek Comfort in the Psalms

"I took my Bible and began to leaf through it, looking for some kind of comfort in its pages. I read a number of Psalms and they helped..."
 ~ Janette Oke, Spring's Gentle Promise

Many sad souls turn to the bottle during hardships which brings them into deeper debt and despair but the believer drinks in the Living Water. The Word of God is free comfort food for the soul! Whenever challenging times come, the Almighty has provided us with promises to sooth our sorrows (some may fulfill in your lifetime while others may fulfill in the eternal life to come). When in need, go to the Psalms. Whatever distress, hopelessness or agonizing trials, you will find solace from every affliction in those pages. This is what has kept the faithful homemaker's of the past afloat when they felt like they were drowning in heartache.

"My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion for ever."
~ Psalm 73:26


Thank you for taking the time to visit here today -- Part 2 is shared HERE. If you enjoyed this article, you may also be interested in Titus 2 Homemaking Lessons Inspired by Jane Austen and Titus 2 Encouragement Inspired by Louisa May Alcott. Have a lovely week and happy frugal homemaking to you!
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